In this episode of Highly Successful Couples, we explore the concept of the “Couple Bubble,” a powerful idea from Dr. Stan Tatkin’s work that helps partners create a safe, protective space around their relationship. We talk about why this mutual commitment matters, how it strengthens ...

A great conversation with Ben Goresky from Evolving Man on why Men might struggle in relationships and what they can do about it. All of my links are here.

Affairs aren’t just about sex or betrayal. They’re often unconscious attempts to soothe old wounds left behind by childhood neglect, inconsistent caregiving, or unmet emotional needs. Today, we break down two common patterns of what we call “attachment affairs”: the detacher, who fear...

This episode is all about aliveness. The energy, spark, and vitality that makes a relationship feel worth being in. We break down the five pillars of aliveness: passion, purpose, presence, playfulness, and positivity. You’ll learn why aliveness fades over time, how to recognize when you’re jus...

In this episode, we explore one of the most important (and often overlooked) ingredients in a thriving relationship: safety. Not just physical safety, but emotional safety. The kind that allows both partners to relax, open up, and show up fully. We’ll unpack what emotional safety real...

What if your struggles in the bedroom aren’t about low libido or incompatibility, but about the cultural scripts you’ve absorbed your entire life? In this episode, Nick breaks down how hip-hop has shaped the way we think sex should look and feel. From performance pressure to emotional disconne...

We all talk about red flags, but do we really understand what they mean? In this episode, Nick breaks down the real story behind red flags in dating and long-term relationships. You’ll learn where the term actually comes from, why our brains are wired to scan for dang...

Are you resisting change in your relationship because you fear losing yourself? In this episode, I unpack the difference between self-abandonment and relational growth, and why the right kind of change doesn’t make you less of who you are, but can actually he...

If every attempt to talk turns into blame, shutdown, or conflict, you’re not alone and you’re not crazy. Defensiveness is more than just a bad habit; it’s a protective strategy rooted in deeper emotional wounds. We explore how this dynamic impacts connection, where it comes from, and most impo...

Stop exiting and start healing. In this episode, we explore the idea of “relationship exits”, the subtle and not-so-subtle ways we pull away from connection when things get hard. Whether it’s scrolling your phone, working late, or turning to someone else for comfort, these exits are often unco...