Live recording from a recent presentation I gave on a concept called The Developmental Mountain, how our communication styles are formed, impact our adult relationships and sabotage our success.All of my links are

Is couples therapy effective? Why or why not? What makes couple's more successful in their pursuit of getting the love they want? Give this a listen!All of my links are here.

In this episode, we explore the quiet but corrosive role that negativity plays in relationships — not just through conflict, but in the subtle daily ruptures that erode trust, intimacy, and emotional safety over time. Drawing from Gottman’s research, IMAGO relationship theory, and nervous syst...

In this episode of Highly Successful Couples, we explore the concept of the “Couple Bubble,” a powerful idea from Dr. Stan Tatkin’s work that helps partners create a safe, protective space around their relationship. We talk about why this mutual commitment matters, how it strengthens ...

A great conversation with Ben Goresky from Evolving Man on why Men might struggle in relationships and what they can do about it. All of my links are here.

Affairs aren’t just about sex or betrayal. They’re often unconscious attempts to soothe old wounds left behind by childhood neglect, inconsistent caregiving, or unmet emotional needs. Today, we break down two common patterns of what we call “attachment affairs”: the detacher, who fear...

This episode is all about aliveness. The energy, spark, and vitality that makes a relationship feel worth being in. We break down the five pillars of aliveness: passion, purpose, presence, playfulness, and positivity. You’ll learn why aliveness fades over time, how to recognize when you’re jus...

In this episode, we explore one of the most important (and often overlooked) ingredients in a thriving relationship: safety. Not just physical safety, but emotional safety. The kind that allows both partners to relax, open up, and show up fully. We’ll unpack what emotional safety real...

What if your struggles in the bedroom aren’t about low libido or incompatibility, but about the cultural scripts you’ve absorbed your entire life? In this episode, Nick breaks down how hip-hop has shaped the way we think sex should look and feel. From performance pressure to emotional disconne...

We all talk about red flags, but do we really understand what they mean? In this episode, Nick breaks down the real story behind red flags in dating and long-term relationships. You’ll learn where the term actually comes from, why our brains are wired to scan for dang...